Tuesday, June 13, 2017

QUIT WITH THE TANTRUMS AND THE TAUNTS

Honestly, enough is enough.

Because I’m neither democrat nor republican, I might be justified in feeling a bit of an outsider in mine own nation.

Watching the two political parties has gotten beyond entertaining, believe you me.

The democrats are behaving like spoiled brats who have been denied what they want but think pitching fits every which way from Tuesday might get them their way.

It won’t.

The republicans are taunting and gloating, which is reprehensible and serves no good purpose but to retaliate against people who are already down for the count. Since when is it okay to kick someone when they’re down?

Stop it.

Just stop it.

There is no reason in God’s green world that all this stuff has to be happening.

More than half of us were labeled ‘deplorable’ last year. We didn’t appreciate that, not the republicans nor we independents. Do we want to taunt? Of course we do. That doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do. Justice has already been served up in generous portions to the one who spat in our faces. We can smirk and snicker all we want, but we don’t have to do it publicly.

So stop.

The vindication has been, is, and will be self-evident. It doesn’t need to be rubbed in.

No, it’s not to be expected that the tantrums will stop any time soon, but we don’t have to react to them as though they’re even worth our notice.

There are, you know, many valuable issues that do deserve attention.

That’s what we want to see more of.

We want updates on the progress that’s being made in the background while the tots are trying to keep themselves center stage with one dramatic fit after another after another.

Parents: when your toddler is pitching a fit, the last thing in this whole wide world you want to do is pay attention to it, other than to make sure it’s not doing actual harm to said toddler or anyone else.

The democrat party can cry if it wants to cry if it wants to cry if it wants to; you might cry too if it happened to you. Which it hasn’t but it’s not going to help anything to keep giving in to their craving for attention. It’s flat not worth it when our energy could and should be spent on better things.

Like what?

Pick a spot, any spot, and start there.

We’ve got a war on, in case nobody’s noticed lately.

We’ve got jobs growing and being filled.

We’ve got violently-disposed individuals about to be checkmated.

We’ve got technology ramping up to take on the renewables and get them into play – putting to use our non-renewable resources to get that job done. In case you weren’t aware of that.

We’ve got new options coming at us on the education front, as the current system has dramatically failed.

We’ve got agricultural choices to make.

We’ve got financial decisions to tackle.

We’ve got independent, individual, freedoms to define and to defend. Yours stop BEFORE your fist hits my nose; mine stop BEFORE I hit you back.

You know, stuff like that.

The times we live in are some of the most exciting in the lifetime of Earth.

Why in the name of anything you might hold dear would we choose to focus on drivel when the universe is unfolding before us and we could be celebrating all of the above and a whole lot more?

Balance will be restored and yes we do need to do our part to help that happen. Tantrums and taunts don’t help.

Change the focus.

If the media doesn’t, change your own focus and forget about watching or listening to the tantrums and the taunts. Look around yourself and see what you can see. If you’re going to go on line, check to see what’s going on in some of those marvelous and changing areas. If you’re interested in one or more of them, for goodness sake educate yourself.

The tantrums aren’t worth our attention. Neither are the taunts.

We get to live in a time that’s truly worth paying attention to, so start paying attention to things that are worth it.

Saturday, June 3, 2017

Justice -> Mercy -> Peace : I want to be fit for myself to know

There's been discussion about whether or not we ought to forgive the gal who knowingly and with purpose not only - - I don't know what to call what she did; not sure I know any words that bad - - the President of the United States but most of the rest of us as well.

See, the thing is that one of the consequences of her deliberate baiting is that she ended up with more on her line than she was fishing for.

Am I the only one who sees the irony in the fact that for the first time I can remember Democrats and Republicans are apparently in agreement?

Yes, it's a an anomaly ... but ... maybe it can be used to begin building that bridge?

Not saying anomalies will become the norm, but every tiny little one counts.

Me, I think I would forgive her on the grounds that she's probably unstable, which is perhaps an unkind thing to think about someone I never met and hope to never meet.

The post right after this one, that I wrote yesterday, speaks of mirrors.

The image in that mirror I talked about is one of horror. Those who have to look into that mirror will want to turn away from it because they will be horrified by what they see in themselves. It's hateful and repulsive, true enough. Glad I'm not down in that pit with them and that's a fact.

Today, there's another mirror in play.

Do those of us who have to look into our own mirrors want to see something that's just as bad in its own way?

Because I'm kind of afraid that when I look into my mirror I might see somebody cold, somebody I don't want to see there.

Unforgiving is not a good thing either.

It's not up to me to condemn anybody; that's Somebody Else's area of expertise, not mine.

I'm entitled to my opinion, just the same as we all are, and the choices that have been made by too many of us are in my opinion appalling (to understate).

While I'm happy that I don't have to look into the Mirror of Horror, I don't want to look into the Mirror of Unforgiving either.

One of the things that's stuck in my head over the course of my journey of learning these past few years has to do with the qualities represented by the Mother in the stories I write.

Her 'things' are Justice, Mercy, and Peace.

The three always follow the same order.

Justice, in this particular case, has been served.

And even though the culprit is unrepentant, maybe our next step still ought to be Mercy.

Because forgiving isn't letting the guilty off the hook; it's letting ourselves get past what's happened so we can find Peace.

There is no Peace in vengeance or vindictiveness.

Just sayin'.

First Justice, which is rarely pleasant (okay, never pleasant).

Next Mercy, which is probably even more difficult to achieve than Justice.

But without those two coming ahead of it, there will be no Peace.

The thing about Mercy is that it must be freely given, and don't expect anybody to ask for it either, or appreciate it.

No, Mercy is given not so much for the benefit of the receiver as for the good of the Merciful.

See, maybe this one incident is a sort of microcosm of a much larger issue.

You can bet your boots that while it may be relatively easy to show Mercy and forgive this guilty woman, the rest of the equation might prove to be a lot more complicated.

Nobody gets 'off the hook'. That's the Justice part of it. And the strange thing about Justice is that it always comes, even if the route it takes might seem a mite odd. You and I may or may not be a part of that whole thing; most often we aren't.

But the Mercy part - that's purely individual, up to each and all of us separately to Choose.

Before you think I'm being altogether too 'sweet' here, I'm not.

Forgiving is NOT condoning. It is NOT 'giving up and giving in'. It is NOT a sign of weakness. It is NOT tacit permission for the guilty to continue doing what they do.

Forgiving and Mercy do NOT include forgetting.

Mercy does not precede Justice, but follows it.

Mercy does, however, always precede Peace.

So that's my take on it.

This one woman's actions have earned her the Justice she's received from unexpected sources.

The same sort of thing happened in a different way on a different stage last year.

Whether or not there's repentance is kind of moot.

Every infraction gets Justice. The ones who keep doing what they do can expect to be served Justice, time and time and time again, maybe in ways they can't fathom and that none of us plan (although some things really do have relatively set consequences).

Once Justice has been served, we get to Choose each and all for our own selves how we will proceed.

When all is said and done, how will we Choose?

No, we can't expect contrition, because it's not likely to happen.

Justice will take its course before it's our turn to make our Choice.

Just think about it is all I'm saying.

Peace is not easily come by. For the vast majority of the history of humankind it hasn't happened. I don't expect it to happen now either, not really. Because the Justice part of things generally seems to dominate our world stage. I think maybe the Peace we all seek can only be found within our own selves, and it is sufficient if you can manage to find it and hang onto it.

Maybe it's like those concentric circles. The outside, biggest, most visible one is Justice, the harshness that always seems to entail. Inside of that outer circle would be Mercy, the individual Choice we all make. And at the center is the inner Peace we all want to find. Who knows? Into my mind comes an image, one of the most ancient of rock carvings. It's those concentric circles - and there's a line that goes into (or out of?) that center, through the outer circles. Could it be that line represents not only the journey it takes to get to the inner Peace but equally important (or more so?) that we can't really tell if the line leads in or if it leads OUT ... maybe we're supposed to find that inner Peace, which makes sense, but we aren't supposed to 'hang onto it' but carry it back out along that line through the Mercy line and the Justice line?

Ach.

Enough philosophy. Those concentric circles have any number of meanings, depending on what is needed.

Just show Mercy and forgive the bloody woman (no pun intended, but there it is) for your own Peace of mind. She's had Justice meted out in no uncertain terms and is likely going to get more. Going ahead with Mercy this one time is, I figure, good practice.

Here's a poem I read a long time ago and finally found again:

Myself

by Edgar Guest

I have to live with myself, and so,
I want to be fit for myself to know;
I want to be able as days go by,
Always to look myself straight in the eye;
I don't want to stand with the setting sun
And hate myself for the things I've done.
I don't want to keep on a closet shelf
A lot of secrets about myself,
And fool myself as I come and go
Into thinking that nobody else will know
The kind of man I really am;
I don't want to dress myself up in sham.
I want to deserve all men's respect;
But here in this struggle for fame and pelf,
I want to be able to like myself.
I don't want to think as I come and go
That I'm for bluster and bluff and empty show.
I never can hide myself from me,
I see what others may never see,
I know what others may never know,
I never can fool myself -- and so,
Whatever happens, I want to be
Self-respecting and conscience free.


Friday, June 2, 2017

She Gave Us A Visual Of What's Been Going On

A gal, thinking to be funny, presented us with a visual image of what's been going on in the American political arena.

Even those who agree with her, maybe them especially, don't think it's funny.

The rest of us recognize it for what it is.

Maybe some of those others also recognize it for what it is.

Maybe that's why they don't like it either.

Perhaps they don't like seeing themselves in that particular mirror.

Well, that mirror was produced right down there in that big deep hole they've been digging for themselves for the past year or more. Nobody's seeing themselves in it except for them.

Picking fights at rallies, rioting, trashing sites of marches and protests (some to the point of ecological harm to areas they claimed to be protecting), discriminating against those who disagree with them, mocking and disparaging people whose views differ, offering support to ones who have harmed and are harming our nation and our people, an absence of support for the ones trying to protect our nation and ourselves (even them) ... the list goes on of what that one image represents.

It's all been going on for quite a while now and the rest of us have not been blind to it.

Neither have we been impressed by it.

If some of the ones seeing themselves reflected in that mirror are recognizing themselves for what they have become, they're maybe getting a glimmer of what everyone else has been seeing in them for all this time.

It's not funny.

It is, however, effective.

The image that's been projected by so many for so long is no different from the one they're recoiling from now. It's the face they've been showing to us as Americans and to the world at large. If they don't like it, perhaps it's time for them to do some soul-searching - because the face they present is but a mirror of what's inside of them.

That's not funny, either.

It's a reflection of certain individuals; it does not reflect America.



Thursday, June 1, 2017

Climate And Gardens On My Mind

I've read a couple of things about the United States withdrawing from the Paris Climate Accord and am puzzled by most of the reactions, which border on hysteria. Our previous president got us into it rather arbitrarily, if my recall is even halfway accurate. That's neither here nor there in what puzzles me. I just threw it in because I felt like it.


Here's an article that's not from any of the 'usual' sources:



ACCUWEATHER has this to say:

"The manner in which the U.S. leaves the Paris agreement is still up in the air and it could be several years before the exit officially happens. There are three ways in which the U.S. could leave the agreement, according to Climate Central.
[A] One scenario is that rather than executing a formal withdraw, Trump and his administration could simply stop efforts to limit greenhouse gas pollution.
[B] If the U.S. does formally withdraw, the treaty requires a country wait three years after joining the agreement before they can file the necessary paperwork to leave the accord, meaning the U.S. wouldn't leave until near November 2020.
[C] A third and more aggressive option would be if the U.S. pulls out of the 1992 UN Framework Convention on Climate Change (UNFCCC). According to Climate Central, the Paris Agreement states that any country that withdraws from the UNFCCC is also considered to have left the Paris accord. The waiting period in this scenario would be one year."

The timeline/s involved give/s us a window of at least a year to come to terms with the whole thing, so the flustering and blustering seems a bit overdone.
The billions of dollars on the line aren't pocket change, you know. You and I can pretty well guess that the pockets those billions were probably slated to fill aren't American ones, and the projects they would have funded probably wouldn't have been American ones. Just sayin'.
The rebuttable presumption seems to be that the United States is going to just disregard anything to do with the climate. [option A above]
While that could conceivably be true, I honestly have my doubts that's the intent here. With the United States and China (China's staying in at least for now, by the way) apparently the biggest pollution-makers in the world, does it make sense for us to be spending billions on other parts of the world when we could probably put those dollars to better use right here on our own 'home turf'?
I'm typically a 'pie in the sky' optimist about a lot of things other folks see only gloom and doom in. Not always, mind you, but a lot of the time I am. I will happily own that.
So let's play 'What If' for just a minute here.
What if we not only spend those billions on developing alternative energy sources and alternatives to most of the things we're currently using non-renewables for, but add an incentive for our own (and other) corporations to invest a hefty hunk of their profit margins in said developments and training for the associated jobs? It will pay off for them before too long I should think. That ought to make everyone happy, right? The world better not gripe either, because we'll be doing what they say they want (only in our own way).
Being as we're right up there at the top of the 'guilty party' list, you'd think the rest of the world would be kicking into the kitty to help us get off of that list. Why do I not think that's happening, or going to happen? I wonder. No, I don't wonder at all about that. I may be an eternal optimist, but honestly ... I just don't see anything like that happening, do you? Didn't think so. Betcha it hadn't even crossed your mind. Or theirs.
Be that as it may, given that we're apparently 'guilty as charged', it certainly behooves us to be taking steps - on our own as the rest of the world isn't going to suddenly become givers instead of takers - toward removing ourselves from the 'bad list' and doing what America does: be the best as whatever we choose to do. Are we going to stand still while the Scandinavians are kicking our behind on this stuff? I think not.
I've said it before and I'll preach it until the cows come home (there have been several preachers on both sides of my lineages, of whom more than one have been women, so yes I can and I will preach) ... 
Reforest.
Recycle.
Re-purpose.
Renewable Resources.
Use our available resources to develop the ones that will replace them, or at least supplement them until we get to where we don't need them any more.
Use some of those billions to provide American individuals, farms, small towns, bigger towns, cities, counties, and states with both the resources and the practical knowledge to pick up a bit of the energy load by using renewables. Give us what we need, starting with individuals and working up to states, to become responsible contributors to our own benefit and the benefit of everyone else.
You don't think that could happen?
You might be right, but we're playing 'What If' here remember.
I wasn't born yet when Americans were apparently gung ho on growing Victory Gardens during the WWI years. I wasn't born yet when American Women stepped up to the plate to work in factories when their men were away fighting. But I spring from the ones who were gung ho, who did step up. So do you if your family's been in the United States for any length of time. They did what they had to do when they had to do it. So can we. So WILL we.
But we aren't going to do it because some 'outsiders' tell us we have to. We'll do it because we want to, because it's common sense, and because we're just ornery enough to do it to spite those who think we can't or won't.
*laughing*
November 8, 2016 comes to mind. God Bless Deplorables!
We really ought to be doing 'Victory Gardens' anyway, on general principles. Some of us are, and I think Yard Gardens are great for those who have them (and their friends and relatives who get the surplus). Do a web search for Front Yard Gardens and see what you can see. If you don't think the everyday ordinary American family/individual can make a difference, you're flat wrong.
If you're wondering what possible impact such small things as planting gardens and trees and getting a solar panel can have, consider the effect of thousands of us (or millions) doing our own small bit, for ourselves yes but for everyone else's benefit too, could generate. 
We do NOT have to always leave it all up to somebody else, and sit around feeling like there's nothing we can do about anything.
Pffft.
What if Americans really did start planting gardens again (including apple trees, or plum, or whatever), for example, and eating what they themselves have grown? Such a simple thing as that.
There would be a great big impact right there.
Psychologically and intellectually, the pride would make people feel better. They'd have to plan, prepare, and implement their ideas for the kind of garden they want, and then feel accomplished and proud when they prove to themselves and everyone else that they could do it.
Physically, the home grown produce would make people healthier (and better cooks), not to mention the being out of doors on a regular basis, and the exercise. The pharmaceutical companies might not like it, but what the heck. They're already in hot water; let's let them simmer.
Spiritually, reconnecting with and nurturing the natural gifts we've been blessed with might bring us all closer to reconnecting on a bigger scale.
Many of us don't feel much connected to the society in which we live in, sad but true. We each have our own lives to get through as best we can, and most of us are too busy and perhaps too isolated within ourselves. Too many of us don't have the time or the energy to get to know many other people, even the ones who are right next door. 
Think about it for a minute. If you're out in your yard, trying to plan what you might want to plant where, and your neighbors are too, guess what. You're likely to actually have conversations, compare notes, get and give advice. You might be as different as night and day as individuals, but you've found something you have in common.
CLICK
There you go.
Let the healing begin.
Believe it or not, We The People really can set the bar for our own selves. 
And we can set it as high as we want. 
If you think your City Council won't notice if everyone starts planting vegetable gardens in their yards, you're wrong. If you think the media won't notice, you're wrong. If you think our government at all levels won't take notice and take heed, you're wrong. If you think our corporations are insensitive to our wants and needs, you're wrong. If you think that We The People can't send a message on up the line by taking the reins into our own fists, you're wrong. 
What if American families and individuals started planting trees and gardens, whole neighborhoods and communities and towns together with a goal they've set for themselves?
What if American families and individuals and neighborhoods and communities and towns got together (for once) and made sure everyone got some kind of renewable energy source and the knowledge to use it?
You think we can't or won't do it?
Think again.
Nobody has to make a great big deal out of it. It's an individual, family, neighborhood, community, town thing - not some mandate from anyone. That's one of the best things about it: that We The People can just quietly go about making some really positive changes in our own sweet time, in our own sweet way, in our own sweet lives, by our own sweet choice, all by our own sweet selves.
Somebody tell Melania, okay? (no 'first name familiarity' intended but she's kind of our awesome collective Mother Figure now) Our First Lady needs a vegetable garden. And we need someone who cares enough about us to encourage us in making healthy choices. Healthy for us as individuals, and healthy for our nation when neighbors are once again neighbors instead of strangers. Some of us have such families, neighborhoods, communities, and towns, and I'm fortunate to have experienced it. It's something worth sharing. And it's something we can all participate in, whether we have acres or square feet to work with. You can always grow a tomato plant or something in a bucket on your kitchen counter, you know. Pumpkins might be a bad choice for that, but lots of things would be perfect.
It's time for our nation to grow up and to grow into something that's good for all of us, and I mean that literally.
PS: the farmers won't mind; they might laugh, but they won't mind
PS2: I don't need two scoops of ice-cream, but could I please have seconds on those home-grown green beans?